Masturbation is an art. It encompasses the total process of foreplay, physical intimacy and finally lovemaking. It is a process of self reliance, independence as well as self-satisfaction. It ejaculates suppressed desire, makes you feel manly and sometimes reveals your unknown, unrealized cravings thus breaking up your hypocritical relationship with yourself. It requires creativity to eternalize the satisfaction. If you ‘expose’ and ‘express’ yourself or your feelings in a ‘creative manner’ it becomes ‘art’; so with masturbation (more or less same like lovemaking as established by Vatsayana).
Making love with a person or with yourself does not make any difference unless you draw a line of distinction. It may sound a little bit awkward. You may think that the second one is an alternative or substitution. I argue on the basis of homosexuality. What if I say that homosexuality is but a psychic disorder or rather an alternative way to satisfy one’s carnal desire? Perhaps not. Those who would have got a partner from opposite sex but have opted for the same sex, perhaps get equal happiness like that of a heterosexual. Some of them perhaps opted for homosexuality after having tried heterosexuality. They may, on the other hand, also consider us to be abnormal. So it does not matter whether anything is alternative. What does matter is our attitude. I say whatever it is if you are satisfied with it then why not? It’s another point whether you like the same sex or the opposite. Just ask yourself: am I happy while doing this? If yes then I say do it properly in order to gain utmost satisfaction.
It will not be a hyperbole if I say that you are in love with yourself. So go ahead… make love… who forbids? Remember, drawing imaginary figure of a particular person in your mind while doing this means deceiving yourself (just like you are on the bed with your partner and imagining her as your favorite star of bollywood). Don’t you think it’s unethical, uh? So guys don’t be hypocrite! If you like intimacy with your imaginary partner then I say it’s better to expect a night-fall.
As I look at the exact figure of sex ratio (933) in India (census of India, 2001), I think that there should be an open debate on the importance of masturbation in contemporary India...
Making love with a person or with yourself does not make any difference unless you draw a line of distinction. It may sound a little bit awkward. You may think that the second one is an alternative or substitution. I argue on the basis of homosexuality. What if I say that homosexuality is but a psychic disorder or rather an alternative way to satisfy one’s carnal desire? Perhaps not. Those who would have got a partner from opposite sex but have opted for the same sex, perhaps get equal happiness like that of a heterosexual. Some of them perhaps opted for homosexuality after having tried heterosexuality. They may, on the other hand, also consider us to be abnormal. So it does not matter whether anything is alternative. What does matter is our attitude. I say whatever it is if you are satisfied with it then why not? It’s another point whether you like the same sex or the opposite. Just ask yourself: am I happy while doing this? If yes then I say do it properly in order to gain utmost satisfaction.
It will not be a hyperbole if I say that you are in love with yourself. So go ahead… make love… who forbids? Remember, drawing imaginary figure of a particular person in your mind while doing this means deceiving yourself (just like you are on the bed with your partner and imagining her as your favorite star of bollywood). Don’t you think it’s unethical, uh? So guys don’t be hypocrite! If you like intimacy with your imaginary partner then I say it’s better to expect a night-fall.
As I look at the exact figure of sex ratio (933) in India (census of India, 2001), I think that there should be an open debate on the importance of masturbation in contemporary India...
